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my husband still loves his first love

Just right now all this has put a big whole in my heart. He compared me to her and other women. I really need His guidance. If you are still suspicious then read this my hub:https://hubpages.com/relationships/34-Signs-That-Y... Hi! I have never been happy, I have not been treated properly, and not respected. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on April 20, 2017: Shelly, I have read your comment. I have always been there for him and she just left him for someone else. Ruth thanks for contacting me. I wish you a blissful marriage. if i mad and wants us to separate even ask him why he dont leave me alone and get over with him but he gets mad at me but then he do the first move to talk to me. That is so disrespectful. My husband say he's always tired. He has no friends and has alienated himself from everyone. Answer: Yes. I've always read stories on here and have made a few comments of my own but never really posted/vented here.little background..sorry this so long..mil has always disliked me, I took her son from her and wasn't the only woman in his life anymore.... A rant... advice welcomed: Blended Family Struggle. If you fight, dont forget to smile after, dont finish your day with a stressful thoughts... everything will be just fine if one of you smiles... My husband works with a woman , their both youth workers but he's telex her most days and nights he's said work related he don't go out with out only on staff nigh out but when I say to him why do keep texing her he's says that just work related but she had a baby few months ago and out of work for 9 months so is just work related of just on my mind he's never off phone and always checking he's phone graves mad because he's thinks I'm boddered but I'm not I more bride red because he's thinks I am because on there stall night out he's said he's meeting 2 men to have a drink befor meet the staff because one of the boys was leaving but when I was driving home the lady he's work with was there but he'd didn't say she be there early that she going later. My husband says he loves me but he only does 2-3 of these tings. that he loves me more,maybe he was enjoying the company of the girl that's why he cant stop the affair, the girl had child too and always on the go like partying. So... blended family. That needs to stop now. Question: My husband says he loves me. I hope you read other hubs. I'm dying to be told I want you or you look good to me. This article may seems true... i feel that my husband still loves me up to now we're 15years. that for contacting me. But how long has it been? Her husband passed away last month after suffering from kidney failure, heart issues, liver disease and, ultimately, a heart attack at their home. Read this and see if there is any of them you have done: https://hubpages.com/relationships/19-Things-Women... My husband blocked phone web and texts. Am a 31 years old woman.we have been married for 2yrs and6 months, but early this year he cheated on me and he confessed.I really dont know what I have done so wrong! He could be jealous. Marriage should be a once-and-for-all union. After all, we all think about an ex now and then. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on August 08, 2017: Sara if you mean that your husband loves you, then that is good news and I am happy to read about it. God will keep and bless your marriage. Your relationship is not amiable because you drink. Have you told him point blank that you don't want to hear it? Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on April 25, 2016: @Lisa, I am very serious I could write this reply earlier, I've been very busy. Why can’t we be alone? Have a blissful marriage. It makes fade our physical and emotions. Find out what went wrong. But use it with love so everything in our lives may restore like our first times... Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on July 01, 2019: Rp that is a good advice. I wish you a blissful married life. Answer: There is no cause for alarm. My husband and I never shared such info because it simply is hurtful and you are not his buddy where he can unload his memories! [Read: How to have better sex and change the way you make love] #6 He asks you about you. Well, according to this list, I’m a placeholder for his next failed marriage. If you could tolerate him for 34 years, you may be able to continue if you don't mind his association to men. It makes it seem more real. I'm not sure how I feel about it.I'm quite sure he still loves her. He does this periodically until I say something, he apologizes, but it starts back up after a period of time. If you do, you have no option but to seek divorce. Me and my husband have been married for seven years it well be 8 years in Feb. My husband works for a apartment complex . This is email I received on the 8th Oct 2016 from a woman with similar problem: Mabusiswe majodina. Here are five signs he still loves you, even though he cheated Whether you take him back or not after that will depend on many other factors, and should be done with caution if … ... “My first crush kissed like a carwash and my first experience of sex was a damp squib.” ... those men that worship their first true loves… Anthony Modungwo. He only cares about the son he has out of wedlock. BUT now things are very, very different. It is so disrespectful to talk about her in front of you. All that is needed is the right attitude. I want my husband home and for us to be happy together like we can be. With God nothing is impossible. Sometimes, I challenge him that we might have little break but he does not want to do it. There is nothing new about your relationship with your partner. He makes me out to be the bad person. Question: After 34 years of a nearly sexless marriage, my husband was secretive with his cell phone and after a serious conversation, he told me he is attached to men. If he is not ready to change, you might have to end the relationship. I don't wanna lose my husband how do I make him talk to me again and get him away from his phone. They have made me realise my weaknesses as a wife and am Praying that God may change my character, mould and shape me. I get upset most of the time lately especially when he opposed my ideas. What should I do? If you are looking for ways to improve your marriage, you may want to consider advice on how to keep a marriage happy. I realized that my husband doesn't love me anymore... Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on May 09, 2018: Freetolive, it is not possible for a man to have all the listed virtues, but when he exhibits majority of them, you can say he loves you. I have the full transcript of their exchanges and cyber sex and I threatened the girl to send it to her relatives and HS batchmates. on October 03, 2016: First. if we fight we dont talk to each other for one day. Sometimes it is essential to learn how to communicate your needs in conversation. Something may be bothering him that will go away after some time. If the reason/reasons are agreeable to you, then try to quit the habit & see how he will subsequently behave. When you treat him with kindness, he desires you even more because you love him the way he wants to be loved. I don’t know whether should I still go ahead to marry him or not. Before being blocked I wanted to know why everything had to be texted on his computer. You should endeavor to make yourself more lovable. What I found there did not jibe with modern thought, but I decided to embrace it any way. He refuses and then says things like women who need affirmation are needy. He moved away and got engaged but whenever he would come to town to visit he will tell me how he would leave his fiancé if I would take him back. My first love found me after 33 years on Facebook. Think of something you must have done to annoy him. Been married for almost 8 years and it has been going on for 7 years. It's just frustrating. I am very happy you found my article useful. Hi. Im being the perfect wife. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on October 21, 2016: Hello Hanz! That some of the characteristics listed here is available is encouraging, all don't necessarily be present. Really. I dont get kissed or made love to why did he marry me ?? Does this mean we are for sure done??? Paulina Porizkova, 55, says she still 'loves' late ex-husband Ric Ocasek - days after revealing she was 'left with nothing' and couldn't afford groceries when he cut her out of his will It is also common to wonder if they still care. all the best...you don't deserve to be 2nd best. Still Loves You! My husband sometimes he shout at me and tell me one day I will kick you out of my house. It's very possible that he loves you, although he may be taking you for granted. He says he doesn't need anyone. Answer: If your husband leaves the bedroom, it may mean you are performance on bed is below his expectations. If your husband block phone web and texts, something must be wrong. It’s hard to write it down like that. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on July 13, 2018: Gina, it is not possible he doesn't do any of the things listed here. You can suggest to him that you will love to be alone with him sometimes & see his reaction. We fight all the time. Answer: From your statements, it is difficult to know if he works. I’m 11 years in, I met... Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). What's the point? He's just not here for me or the kids. Are you sure you want to delete your discussion? none of that is ok. period. So I think my husband still loves an ex-girlfriend, his first love, the one that got away. But he is always on his phone. When he found out I was ill he had been dealing with another woman! Some day the spell will fail and the relationship will collapse. He said he still finds me very attractive and doesn’t want to hurt me which confuses me and still upsets me. I'm pretty strong and independent. My mission is to save as many marriages from collapse as I can. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on January 31, 2017: Hush. I doubt he would enjoy hearing about your precious sexual experiences! Handle this situation carefully without allowing it to deteriorate further by trying out some of the tips giving above. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on April 04, 2020: Welcome. It happens sometimes that a man's attitude towards you is not the same as when you were dating. In my opinion if he was still in love with his ex, you should not have married him. Every conversation is seen as hostile if it involves us on any level. Than we got into it but everytime i said im done he doesnt want to get a divorce and he says i love you dont leave me. Follow https://hubpages.com/@chuksm for more of my problem solving hubs. When our relationship was new, I told my husband about this first love. Remember: Marriage is not supposed to be an experiment or a trial run, so handle it with the seriousness it deserves. I have been married for almost 10 yrs now with with my husband. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on April 23, 2017: Joy Hudson, I have read this comment. I'm positive he loves me, but this reminiscing about her beauty and BJ's from his ex are getting bothersome. Agree with PP I would be furious if my SO continued to discuss BJs with his ex with me! He Calls You by His Ex's Name These Freudian slips of the tongue could be meaningless. Nikita, I don't fully understand your question. And by reading or listening a love story make us feel young again and that way it will helps us reminisce what we had before when we first met our partners and may helps us to revive the feelings that fades by time... time is powerful in every couple. 14. He swallows his pride and apologizes first even if it’s not his fault in any way. I would like to know more about this thank you. What should I do? How to save my marriage I have only ever loved him we have 4 beautiful children youngest is 4 months. Hello?! It's like he pulls you in the friend zone instead of behaving towards you as a husband who respects and loves his wife. This shocked me when we were preparing our wedding he was cohabiting with a lady ,i just found it out when i went to register the wedding ,a pastor told me everything because the lady came to church to complain that my husband promised to marry her or they can be together after we got married. Hasn't cheated that I know of. At the beginning of the relationship, he was very aloof and while he would continue to make plans with me, he never really seemed that excited about the prospect of a new relationship with me. You must continuously do things that will make your togetherness more platonic. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on July 13, 2017: Simanye, thanks for contacting me. You may wish to add yours in the comments. I'm trying to find a like button but there isn't one. I was inspired to write this article by a reader’s comment. I wish you a blissful marriage. Let me tell you, it was the best decision I have ever made aside from placing my faith in Jesus Christ as my savior, My husband treasures me like I never imagined. My husband doesn't do ANY of these items listed above. He hardly wants to go out, or spend money. Have you found out why he doesn't want you to drink? One thing you need to know is that men don't like women who are dependent. Laughter is still a big part of your life together. My husband dose just one of these signs, which is to pick his calls. Dear Coleen. I wish you a blissful marriage. One of my favorite signs that my husband loves me is when he tells me he loves the sound of my laugh. So I want to know if he loves me or not. I agree with you that what is good for the goose is good for the gander, that is why I wrote https://hubpages.com/relationships/99-Tips-That-Ma... Woman should not always be at the receiving end, but must give as well. I know that my husband really loves me, he shows all the signs that mentions here. No man is perfect. He does not listen or understand me, he does not make me feel special or care much. Read this hub and try to do those things you can and all will be well again. Ouch. Answer: It all depends on you. We try hard for you in an incredible amount of ways but some how the one or two things that we imperfectly don't somehow read your mind on what you have envisioned are the things that seem to be repeated and obsessived over which drives us further away from your ridiculous 27 ways of fantasy. and there a times that i talk to him that i planned to leave the house together with the kids but he don't want us to leave i asked him why? We argue yes and this is healthy but we dont stay mad at each other for long. Thank you for writing a tribute hub for friendship and love. Should I believe him? Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on July 02, 2019: Rp thanks for your prayers & encouragement. Now, he doesn't seem to do this with malice; he just thinks it and says it. Then I said I think your frien birthday he's said not sure but told me he Texas her so that 3 lies but think he's saying all that because I'm borred but I'm not and face he's thinks I'm brother end is getting down. I am leaving him and he does not know it. Use of this site is subject to our terms of use and privacy policy. He never wants to admit his mistake. To cut the story short after we got married we dont share the same blanket nor eat my food he always tell me that he's not eating , i can give his food to the dogs when i asked him why ,he just say he's already sleeping which makes me to have alot of questions or mayb they are still together with the lady. Resorting to magical thinking is one way that people hold out hope that their ex still loves them after a breakup. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on May 14, 2020: Good day Linda. Does My Husband Still Love Me? You don't want to hear about all of the things they used to do. A man feels valued when he’s respected, and when you make a man who loves you feel this way, he’ll be willing to go the extra mile for you. Are you experiencing any of these warning signs he may be cheating? Marriage requires commitment and compromise. Helping partners with problems is my my passion. What will I do I this situation? We have been together for 6 years and just got married in August last year. It takes a village to support a man who is stuck on a woman. I have been married for 12 years and with God in my life i truly can say my relationship with my husband has blossomed. He never answer any questions . My husband never had problem with makeup, colorful hair, and short thighs but since we got married he said he's dosen't like them. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on June 20, 2018: I mean I cannot respond because I don't understand the language of commend. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on January 13, 2016: Thanks Erorantes for your encouragement. However, you may have to find out why he no longer like them. 7. My daughter is 13 now and long … Answer: You should know the type of work your husband does. likes nothing happen. We havent had sex or the relationship like other newlyweds. Please help me with this. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. They can tolerate your demand for financial assistance once a while but when it becomes frequent, the relationship will run into muddy waters. Try to have a heart-to-heart talk about how you feel about how you are treated. If he doesn't he will not be showing off publicly. This isn’t some one night stand, a one-time mistake. At first your husband being angry at his may seem contrary to him still being in love but things may not seem so incredible when you consider that the opposite of love is not hate but indifference. I'm sorry, did you say he reminisces about her BJs? Let your presence be valuable to him, and try to create a feeling within him that will make him want to be with you always. Lgw, write to me through my email tonymodus@gmail.com. Are you sure you want to delete your comment? By unveiling one of your innermost layers to describe a formative experience or a private thought, however shocking, unpleasant, or unremarkable, you will demonstrate trust. He refuses to sleep with me in bed and sleeps on the floor. A guy who doesn’t love his wife would rather masturbate than carry on a fake sexual relationship. I am sorry I could not reply earlier due to circumstances beyond my control. Maybe All we need is just a simple talk to surpass each problems that we encounter in our lives. Answer: Confront him with your discovery and see how he reacts. You didn't state how long this has been going on, but if this situation has lasted more than a year, you have to discuss the future of your marriage. Replace him with her and you with your husband and reread the entire 27. I got married to my husband 12 years ago. Everytime i ask him how his day at work or even trying to make him open up to you, i feel that i am being ignored. You can find it at: http://www.MendMarriageGuide.com - Marriage takes work but overcoming the rough patches will only make you a stronger couple. We are both in our 60"s. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on December 15, 2019: Milani, now that he has promised to do things differently, you will have to give him a try. That your husband is willing to come back is enough sign that he loves you. There is every possibility he still loves you; that is why you are still living together. He mentioned it to me few years back that if I can't cope, I should file for divorce. But if he exhibits just one, it may not really be said that he truely care so much for you. Give me feedback about the outcome. If you are suspecting that your husband is cheating on you this this article and be sure before taking any action that may destroy your marriage: https //hubpages.com/relationships/34-Signs-That-Your-Husband-is-Cheating. Answer: You have given the reason why he doesn't do any of these things. I love my husband,but I came from work last week and I caught my husband on pornography and I was devestated and hurt and sad and I felt betrayed, because raised with values of marriage, about staying faithful and loyal and committed to just one person and I am having a hard time of letting this go and forgiveness and I have a hard time with trusting people anyways,but I want marriage to work, so what could i do and could you please help us? Feel free to contact me again if there is is need for it. Recommend it to your friends and family members for solutions to relationships related problems. Should i believe him? 35 signs your husband in still in love with you. Question: I am in a confused state. Men have a very strong need for respect, and it’s the core of their self-esteem. Trust, when reciprocated, breeds closeness. Read this article and see where you need to make amends. 10. Then he's said few days before that I think she going but I was talking to her and she said she had baby sitter for kid and that she was talking to husband on phone and had him told , but my husband was after telling me that she was telling other she work she was going but him she was talking them he's tex her and wished her happy birthday . Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on June 27, 2019: Natural love is by far better than artificial love achieved by manipulation. It was due to circumstances beyond my control. Pray over him, love him and trust me a miracle may happen for you. If you can muster the courage to lead the way in establishing mutual trust, you will also lay the groundwork for a strong relationship. He is disrespectful in the way that he speaks to me (this I had NEVER encountered before, he know longer helps with anything that’s asked of him, & if it’s not about him then he makes it about him. When a man feels he isn’t respected, he will become cold, unresponsive, and simply withdraw his love. So I think my husband still loves an ex-girlfriend, his first love, the one that got away. I had replied including some links but the links are not opening here. This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. No man is perfect. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. But he got mad at me one night and told me he was trying to get with her .. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on February 25, 2018: Trina, you are welcome. I think it's healthy to think about an ex every so often. Perhaps he never stopped loving her, much the same way that someone continues to love a spouse that died. Warmest regards. Ah, your first love: that special someone who stole your heart first, and if you're being fully honest with yourself, probably still has it.It's hard to forget the first … Don't be discouraged and don't contemplate divorce yet. Beware men who never get over a first love. i didnt know everything will work out well with this amazing man he helped me looked into my wifes phone to know if she is truly having an affair with another man he is really the best in town trust me you wont regret you did hackerfrank001 at g mail dot com. VisiHow QnA. This section is not written yet. Have you tried to examine your attitudes to find out if they turn your husband off? If the man married you, he must have loved you, so if he doesn't love now, something must have gone wrong somewhere. If you are dealing with some serious issues with your spouse, get help. I've tried so hard to believe that he loves me but I feel after only 9months he made a mistake. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on October 04, 2016: @Kath Dy, I can help you. The day you do all those things for your man you can stay to hope you get them back but maybe you should look at the hundreds of unique ways your man loves you unique to you and your relationship. Best wishes. A man in love is a man who wants to spend time with you, as mentioned, and a man who loves you also includes you in plans for a fun weekend, a nice vacation, some fun Christmas prep., or just about anything else in his life where he can include you (excluding, of course, areas where he needs to be alone, or with his friends/family). I can honestly say my husband has almost shows me all the above signs. I'm not sure how I feel about it.I'm quite sure he still loves her. If you still enjoy sex together, that is one of the best answers to, does my husband love me. If my husband was reminiscing about past sexual experiences to me, I'd be pretty upset. https://hubpages.com/relationships/Things-Women-Do... Having sex is essential in marriage is essential but the atmosphere must be amiable for it to work. I would never put up with that. You make me feel whole. Casting spell on a man or woman is like forcing him/her to do things against his will. This is the only ex he talks like this about. He will see you're remorseful and will reconsider his decision. My husband now does suffer with depression (I fully understand this & I am empathetic) although he does very little to nothing around the house, he doesn’t talk about anything, not us, not the kiddies, not his mother, nothing at all actually. He let's me have it and do what I want on it except snoop which is what I have come to now in days. I have been married for 12 years. I will like to hear from you after trying to fix this weakness of yours. Didnt got help from my husband i was in hospital and he was out with friends. But if we tack on feelings to that, then we have your husband, who not only chooses to stay committed to you on a daily basis, but actually feels that love for you. Let us start by checking if you are not the cause of the problem by going through this:https://hubpages.com/relationships/Things-Women-Do... You can win your husband back by doing some of these things in this hub:https://hubpages.com/relationships/7-Ways-to-Win-a... Let me know how it went.Best wishes. My husband is in love with another woman. I have been married 24 years and my husband treats me like I am his obsession. Whether you need affectionate gay love quotes or an ideal husband quote, how husbands should be quotes focus in on the traits your husband shows that other men could stand to learn from.. A good husband loves his wife. Anthony Modungwo (author) from Benin on October 07, 2016: Omet thanks for your comment. Is this a sign that he is not interested of me anymore? Anyway she ended up leaving him because he kept reminiscing about me and she wasn't dumb. If you are not convinced he is really busy, then try and find out from him why he doesn't like to answer calls while at work. Sharing/spreading your love story to all the couples may inspire them to be inlove again to their partners. WHAT TO DO? Couples therapy and seeing a couples therapist can certainly save a marriage if both husband and wife put in the work and talk through their issues. https://hubpages.com/literature/There-is-Differenc... Yeah, my husband does absolutely none of these things. His people subtly try to convince you to talk to him. A man you call your husband must have affection for you, otherwise he will not marry you in the first. If you are able to find what went wrong then you can make corrections. Hi! You cannot be married & continue to live with your mother. He's away alot due to his job and that makes it even worse. He Makes Plans with You. This is one of the major signs he still loves his ex and is merely finding ways of being a part of her life in some way. I love my husband so much but I think I just get so upset easy and always see his fault. Ever since then we have a family get together and that person shows up, i just walk away because i dont want to get hurt inside. He cries and tells you about his … If he continues seeing her then he has lied to you. I can only see a couple of those in the list.. Check through this article and see if you'll see some of the mistake/s you made and try to make amend. I was married but not anymore because sometimes real love never dies. Is having an affair wrong? My husband is in love with another woman, and what’s worse, it’s not me AND her. If he loves staying at home, how does he earn income? He was hurt. I'd like to have a partner in life. It’s just her. If he is remorseful and apologizes, promising to turn a new leaf, you go ahead, but he is nonchalant about it, you should call off the marriage. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other. Best wishes. He's not abusive or anything. Change your attitude & all wll be well. She cheated on him so obviously the end of their relationship didn't turn out how he must have planned. We used to talk and he would always bring me flowers and dote on me. It is cyclical and usually brought on by a dream or something that triggers a memory. I want to be happy. If my husband was speaking that way about an ex and that often I would be very annoyed and worried. I have been with my husband 8 years only 1 of the 20 something apply to him but i fill almost every one. Try to rekindle the sparks that used to be in your marriage. my wife decided to cheat on me after all we had gone through together, Ladyashelyhackworld at g mail for helping me with this, I got her WhatsApp messages in less than an hour, my husband does love me but I don't feel I love him also, Kudos to the author, this article is very accurate. I went from 90lbs to 166 as of my last visit. You may need to do some self examination.

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